I am definitely no specialist and what I am about to say may not apply to you. But these five factors are things I stand by, or am trying my hardest too. Each and everyone enables me to make the most of everything, helps me to be myself and helps me to embrace my happiness. Being happy is something I have personally been struggling with recently so it felt fitting to share this post with you, because even if it helps just one person that would make me feel so great. It is so easy to get lost in social media and their perceptions of how you should be/how you should act; put your phone down, get off twitter/instagram/tumblr and take a moment to breathe. Too many people spend too much time on their phone and laptop, it is easier than ever to lose yourself and forget about the things in life that matter, so take a moment to appreciate them. This has turned into a point itself...so before I waffle on anymore, I am going to share with you my five ways to be happy!
One
Build your own dreams not somebody else's.
Now this one is extremely self explanatory. But if you want to do something in life, don't listen to what somebody else's dreams are, you go out and catch your own! Change can only come from you. And the most important thing to remember is you are you, so embrace that because it is something nobody can take from you.
This is something I live by, starting this blog was a huge step towards doing what I want to do. Not everyone understands why I do it, nor my desire to do so. But I do. And I am doing something I want to do in life, without anyone else's input! And guess what, I love it!
Two
Challenge yourself and don't give up.
Set yourself ambitions. Set yourself tasks. Set yourself goals. And push yourself to do it! If you want to run a marathon, put a date in your diary and you run that marathon! If you want 4 A*'s in your Alevels, set yourself the goal and get them! Anything is possible, the world is quite literally your oyster and you're free to do whatever it is you want to do.
Three
Worrying.
It is pretty likely that this is something each and every one of you has experienced, I know I for one can relate. You get into bed and suddenly your mind ignites; thoughts run through your head and the next thing you know, you are worrying about everything and anything. Stop. The one thing we all forget is everything happens for a reason, whether it be failing an exam or breaking an arm. These things teach us lessons, they make us stronger both mentally and emotionally (sometimes physically too). Some days you feel absolutely pants, not even an endless supply of chocolate could make you feel better. But everything that happens, does happen for a reason; good or bad. And these things we do, right or wrong, shape who we are. Don't feel the need to think everything will fall perfectly into place at the most convenient of times because some things are beyond our control. And whether you worry about them or not, there is nothing you can do about them.
It is far easier said than done and it is most definitely something I am working on, but try your best, we both in it together. Always remember that there are 7 billion people in this world, you are not alone in worrying.
Four
Being complacent.
Humans are creatures of habit. I'm sure I don't stand alone in being someone that goes into a restaurant and orders the same meal every time. Take Wagamamas: for the longest time I only ever ordered Chicken Katsu Curry, it wasn't until recently I tried something new and enjoyed it so much more. This strives further than Wagamamas, step out of your comfort zone and challenge yourself to doing something new. Of course this goes further than food ladies and gentlemen.
Five.
Preparation.
I am sure you have heard it all before, on multiple occasions - by failing to prepare you are preparing to fail. Work, school, exercise, your diet. Anything. If you don't prepare, you are failing yourself. At the end of the day, you are only failing yourself. And no matter how many people tell you think, you won't fully understand until you experience it. This can be done the hard way or the easy way. But, for example, if you want to get fit - prepare yourself, prepare your clothes and do it!
So now: shut your laptop, pop your phone down and go and do something that makes you happy!